True Love

“Love is there until it’s not.”

This statement can be applied to so many things. It can trigger memories of your first love, that summer dress you knew was a little to small but you just had to have it or that single chair you got from a yard sale and have so patiently waited for a partner to accompany it or even a cute side table. When it comes to our home or our life in general we have to be careful of the things that we bring in. We have to be sure that there is not doubt and that there is truly a connection for whatever is in question. I mean a connection like you drive halfway home and have to turn around because you know that you would not be able to sleep without it.

Much like you share your home with the people you love most the same should be the case for your furniture, pictures or anything else. Some of my favorite things were less than $10 the most expensive being $60. It’s hard because filling a home with the things that you absolutely love takes time. It’s also about always being open but more importantly knowing and understanding your style and needs. The last thing you want to do is to settle for something that you are not in love with and have to figure out what to with it as time goes by. Many of my favorite spaces on the internet have so much thought put into them, the theme is personal and so very far from a display room at Ikea (not knocking Ikea…I love that place). Designing your space is about being yourself, it’s a outward display of who you are much like the clothes you wear.

And when time goes by and you feel hopeless and frustrated…just remember…Rome wasn’t built in a day.

Happy Hunting


Wheel of Dynamics

I think it takes a certain amount of heartbreak sometimes to learn how to love…when the one you love becomes that heartbreak there maybe nothing else that you can do but remember what you’ve learned as to not make the same mistake twice. 


My bestfriend said that in a relationship the man has to love his women a little more because a man is a creature that feels he needs to conquer. Giving to much of yourself counterbalances the dynamic between a man and a woman. 

See John Mayer – Wheel